“Realities” that are both “real”…..

The “content” of our character: the stuff that , in FTF, we don’t “wear on our sleeve” by habit or in a native/ default form. And we keep it behind a socail barrier that is all too often rare, and most tragically, in FTF church. I have found that people find out more about me online, then can seek me out ftf if they want to expand into that “reality” space.